I Walk Alone

It’s a wretched, miserable existence when you’re in love with someone who doesn’t love you back. Whether their eyes glaze over when they see you, or you’re “just a friend”, it sucks. It can do serious damage to self esteem. You find yourself wishing, trying, and thinking (maybe even obsessively. It’s ok, I won’t tell) and you can very well reach a point of despair.What I’ve noticed would happen in a situation like this is sometimes you may find yourself trying to alter yourself to the person’s pleasing. Or worse - what you THINK that person likes. Sometimes desperation makes you do things that you wouldn’t do otherwise. I just wanted to put this out there for the eager eyes that read this.

That person’s - or anyone’s - opinion of you for that matter does not define you or your value.
You are not any less smart, sexy, clever, talented, anything. Thinking in this way only aggravates the effects you feel from rejection. It’s a quick launch to a negative space that will certainly affect all aspects of your life. I’m not saying don’t be sad. But know who you are.

Don’t Cheapen Yourself

You know exactly what I’m talking about. Doing things you don’t want to do, that you wouldn’t do, that devalues or humiliates you to appease a soul. It’s not going to make them love you anymore and some unsavory characters would gladly lead such a circus at the expense of their conscience at old age (stay with me here) for the attention and care from such a wonderful person such as yourself. Who doesn’t love some TLC? Don’t compromise yourself. I’m going to say it again. DON’T compromise yourself.

Accepting Reality

It’s ok to hurt. To feel pain, to feel sad. But it’s not ok to refuse that person’s rejection, obsess, and bring yourself to new degrees of low. The bad news is the object of your affection doesn’t share those same feelings with you. But don’t count yourself out yet. There is someone who can appreciate you and return your adoration, like you deserve somewhere out there. I say deserve with conviction because I know - its so easy to take even small common courtesies as signs of someone warming up to you because you want that love so badly. But, my friend, that’s a baseline. Common courtesy… is common. Or at least it ought to be. It’s not love.

Be Good To Yourself

You will find that I’ll say this often because when I’m seeking that advice, I hear it so very often and I agree with it. We are so very good at beating ourselves up for what we deem our shortcomings. How about some of that adoration for that person… for yourself. You have the right to feel good you know, as you work on breaking that cycle and refocusing yourself and your sights on something or someone else. Loving someone who doesn’t love you back hurts like hell. So for your own sake, think about implementing these things that I’ve mentioned. Easier said than done, trust me - I know. But when you’re ready to be done with the whole misery aspect of it all, it will deliver a very necessary breakthrough.

Newsflash

The yellow school bus is supposed to be haven for taking our children to class each day and then bringing them home at night.

But chilling recent stories by Tribune reporters Hayley Ringle and Nicole Beyer make it clear that the school bus isn’t so safe any more. Rapid turnover among bus drivers, and students who show far less respect toward adults than past generations, are leading to a rising number of inexperienced drivers struggling to balance their task of traveling city streets while keeping both eyes on what the kids are doing behind them.

The situation is clearly out of control when a bus driver feels compelled, for whatever reason, to get into a physical confrontation with a student as happened earlier this month in the Higley Unified School District. The driver never should have touched that student.

But it’s clear from the Tribune’s reporting that more bus drivers are reaching their wits’ end on how to handle students who refuse to stayed seated and talk quietly so the driver can focus on the road.

The biggest problem is too many parents are quick to assume the bus driver must be in the wrong and coddle their youngsters’ sense of victimization if they don’t like the rules. Yes, you, Mom and Dad, are directly to blame if you aren’t teaching your children to follow the bus driver’s instructions to the letter from the moment they hit the bus steps until they exit through the front doors again.

Your child claims that the bus driver is unreasonable or mean or singles her out for mistreatment? Fine, you can join her in taking up those complaints with the driver’s boss once your child gets home. But such matters are trivial in comparison to the bus making its rounds safely and on time.

Indulge your child’s first desire to defy the bus driver, and you encourage him to do so again in a louder voice and to drag his friends into acting up as well.

Unfortunately, we recognize that many parents aren’t going to get this message, at least not in the immediate future. So school districts are going to have take additional steps to deter bad behavior among students. That was supposed to be the impact of installing video cameras, but they appear only effective at recording unruly actions for possible YouTube viewing.

Bus drivers need help now, and the quickest way would be to assign a second adult to every bus. Most East Valley districts assign such bus monitors in a limited fashion, primarily to protect special education students or to watch kids riding to alternative schools.

We admit we don’t know where districts are going to find the money to fund enough adult monitors for every bus. But the way things are going now, it’s only going to get more costly in the long run as out-of-control conditions are putting the lives of both students and drivers in danger.

Source

This is a copy of a mail I received, thought might wanted to post if because I knew plenty of people out there who don't have a QUALITY LIFE to live on. Yes, you can earn money by end of every month. But who is representing you after that ?? Which one of your attitude people going  judge you ?? Being a slut ?? Pay-Per-Sex attitude ?? and Bla bla bla...Who lives a good life anyway, myself ?? I wasn't past few months ago, now I'm trying my every level best to live a LIFE. Not to be saint, but to be a person. Forget that, no dogs learned it lesson any sooner, because they don't actually see what their into. When will they realize ?? Easy, when one of their own flesh and blood ended up like them. So how many of you had safe sex for valentines day ??

The story goes .......

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" The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect."

             A group of graduates, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups -porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive,some exquisite- telling them to help themselves to the coffee. When all the students had a cup of coffee, the professor said: "If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the simple and cheap ones.

While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases, it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink.

What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups... Then you began eyeing each other's cups.

* Now consider this:
- Life is the coffee; the jobs, money and position in society are the cups.
- They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of Life we live.
- Sometimes, by concentrating on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee God has provided us. Enjoy your coffee!."

* The happiest people don't have the best of everything.
* They just make the best of everything."

1. Live simply.
2. Love generously.
3. Care deeply.
4. Speak kindly.
5. Leave the rest to God.

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If you ever been a customer of TMNet, the main ISP in Malaysia and the mighty ISP on earth, you will know how slow their customer service is, especially for Streamyx. Make a complaint, and wait half a year until it’s solve. Few weeks ago, I too have problem with them. And luckily, it is solved in 1 week+, but I’m still not happy. They reply my email in at least 3 days, which is very slow compare to other company who can reply me in 24 hours.

I got my hand on this clip via a friend formerly worked for Tmnet-Streamyx, Mr.Chua - can’t stand anymore and rant at two customer service operator. Frankly speaking, I don’t think there is any use to shout and rant at the customer service operator. They are just answering phone calls, and they are not the one who provide you the Internet service. To me, they are just like shield, protecting the boss who provide lousy service. Let’s listen to it, and forget it after listening. No offense to anyone, and I don’t know why this record will be spread on the Internet, wondering what the hell is the customer service doing.

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